It doesn't surprise me that there are woman out there who believe (firmly) that once they popped out their 2.3 kids that they shouldn't/wouldn't/can't have children now. And they will stifle their husband's needs to have sex. And if they find out that their husbands are "cheating' with that horrible porn they will make lives difficult for them.
Some of these woman thing that by taking porn away from their husbands who are still sexual then they won't feel their own guilt for not wanting sex.
But I also know men who I lived with for 6 years who met me in an erotic writers chat. Once we got together as a couple refused to have sex after a short amount of time and being told that I was insensitive to his needs and it contained that way.
It's always someone else's fault if someone wants something more.
And for so people it's not even about any of the above, it's just that they like porn and they love/desire their mate.
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branchandroot
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Date: 2005-09-07 01:24 pm (UTC)Some of these woman thing that by taking porn away from their husbands who are still sexual then they won't feel their own guilt for not wanting sex.
But I also know men who I lived with for 6 years who met me in an erotic writers chat. Once we got together as a couple refused to have sex after a short amount of time and being told that I was insensitive to his needs and it contained that way.
It's always someone else's fault if someone wants something more.
And for so people it's not even about any of the above, it's just that they like porn and they love/desire their mate.
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